
Stephen Moyer at the HBO premiere of The Pacific
PLAYBOY: We’re about to see you in your third season of playing Bill Compton, the hot-blooded, brooding, reformed 174-year-old Southern vampire on True Blood. Having shared many of the show’s steamiest sex scenes with Anna Paquin, who plays Sookie Stackhouse, a vampire-loving telepathic waitress, what can you tell us about human-on-undead sex?
MOYER: Unlike werewolves, who are very hot, vampires are steely cold, so sex with the undead isn’t going to get hot and crispy. There’s no heartbeat, no adrenaline rush as you get close to the moment. But in terms of speed and timing, you may be able to have sex that lasts for days. Vampire sex is muscular and physical, so it could be tiring for a human guy to have sex with a female vampire. I often think a lot of women’s attraction to vampires is based on the fact that vampires come from centuries ago, from eras of chivalry and courtly virtues. So it’s about being treated like a lady but being physically overtaken in the sack.
PLAYBOY: Is the sexual dynamic you just described anything like the one you have in real life with Paquin, whom you met, fell in love with and became engaged to since the two of you started doing True Blood in 2008?
MOYER: She doesn’t pull punches. I’ll take 74,000 words to express an emotion because I fear hurting someone’s feelings. Anna will do it in three words. But we trust each other so implicitly that there’s never anything hurtful; it always comes from a loving place. It’s not as though people I’ve been with before haven’t been loving, but with Anna it’s just about pure trust, on camera and off. I have never trusted anybody like I trust Anna.
PLAYBOY: Before you two went public with your relationship, many critics, bloggers and online fans commented on your on-screen chemistry. When did you realize the chemistry wasn’t merely on camera?
MOYER: During the show’s first season I had to go back to London and she went back to New York. I wish I had bought shares in Skype, because we Skyped every night for three or four hours. It felt as though part of me had been removed when Anna and I were apart.
PLAYBOY: Anna recently declared her bisexuality in a public service announcement for gay rights. Were you taken by surprise?
MOYER: I’ve never been in a relationship before in which, literally within the first three days, all the cards were laid out. I knew who she was when I met her; she knows everything about me as well. It wasn’t something that was kept from me. I condone what she has done 100 percent, and it’s her business to talk about it, not mine. We talked about it in quite a lot of detail. It doesn’t change anything. I’m proud of who she is.








